2pm
since 14th July 2008
character?
Thursday, June 07, 2007 ( 2:41 PM )
I was bored, so I went to ting's blog to see her old posts and found this. dunno how true this is. Well, humans are complicated beings and shouldn't be that easy to discern or dissect by asking just them several dozen questions about their previous experiences.
Well, anyway, I was quite surprised to see this analysis, made me ponder about how much I have changed. My personal opinion of this test is that, its not a totally accurate test. I wonder how differently will I answer the questions if I were attached to somebody whom I believe will have a good future with me.
I dun see myself as somebody who has more dominance in a r/s, but somebody who likes a change of environment every now and then when out on dates. In fact, I dun have a lot of say when it comes to quarrels, i was the one who apologized most of the time if there was any disagreement.
If you have been attached to a person whom (you think) will not have a happy future with you (bcos of difference in religion opinions, parental objections, clash in personality etc), wouldn't you want to break free from the r/s, even though you love the person deeply? Is this the time to discuss about how idiotically faithful you are to him even if it means burning family ties with your own family whom you love so much?
Does it mean that if you have a lot of experience in dating or have more than 2/3 boyfriends or girlfriends in the past, you will automatically know what true love is when it comes? Some people just keep falling for the wrong type of man (the abusive type, the full-of-sweet-talk but no sincerity type etc) until they really learn their lesson. Just following your gut feeling, will not always lead you to "the one".
Well, anyway, I was quite surprised to see this analysis, made me ponder about how much I have changed. My personal opinion of this test is that, its not a totally accurate test. I wonder how differently will I answer the questions if I were attached to somebody whom I believe will have a good future with me.
I dun see myself as somebody who has more dominance in a r/s, but somebody who likes a change of environment every now and then when out on dates. In fact, I dun have a lot of say when it comes to quarrels, i was the one who apologized most of the time if there was any disagreement.
If you have been attached to a person whom (you think) will not have a happy future with you (bcos of difference in religion opinions, parental objections, clash in personality etc), wouldn't you want to break free from the r/s, even though you love the person deeply? Is this the time to discuss about how idiotically faithful you are to him even if it means burning family ties with your own family whom you love so much?
Does it mean that if you have a lot of experience in dating or have more than 2/3 boyfriends or girlfriends in the past, you will automatically know what true love is when it comes? Some people just keep falling for the wrong type of man (the abusive type, the full-of-sweet-talk but no sincerity type etc) until they really learn their lesson. Just following your gut feeling, will not always lead you to "the one".
cynical, oh yes, i'm cynical. I wonder why they put my cynicism to such a low level. It is so underrated.
Independence, come to think of it. I have been so busy with studies, cca and projects that I hardly have time to think about dating. I've been self-sufficient for one entire year and i'm pretty happy with my current lifestyle, although sometimes i may feel a little ke xi about past r/s.
Okie, exams coming. Back to the books! Jiayou for everybody who is taking intersem modules!
Okie, exams coming. Back to the books! Jiayou for everybody who is taking intersem modules!
| Your Five Variable Love Profile |
 Propensity for Monogamy: Your propensity for monogamy is medium. In general, you prefer to have only one love interest. But it's hard for you to stay devoted for too long! There's too much eye candy to keep you from wandering. Experience Level: Your experience level is high. You've loved, lost, and loved again. You have had a wide range of love experiences. And when the real thing comes along, you know it! Dominance: Your dominance is medium. You tend to be the one with more power. You aren't a total control freak in relationships.. But of course you don't mind getting your way! Cynicism: Your cynicism is medium. You'd like to believe in true and everlasting love... But you've definitely been burned enough to know better. You're still an optimist, but you also are a realist. Independence: Your independence is high. You don't need to be in love, and sometimes you don't even want love. Having your own life is very important for you... Even more important than having a relationship. |